Umm Salamah رضي الله عنها first married to her cousin Abu Salamah Ibn 'Abdul-Asad. He was a young man with exceptionally good nature and unblemished conduct. It was improbable for this young man of exceptionally lofty morals to remain unmoved by the noble and life-giving message of the Noble Prophet, Muhammad sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam.
Defying his tribesmen, Abu Salamah رضي الله عنها embraced the new faith and entered the fold of Islam. Umm Salamah رضي الله عنها followed suit.
Thus, the couple joined the rank of those noble souls, who had won the unique distinction of embracing the new faith in its early phase.
These noble souls suffered all kinds of hardships and harassment in the cause of Islam, but they did not budge even an inch from the right path. As the number of the people who had embraced the new life-giving faith increased, the persecution and torture meted out to them also increased in intensity.
When this persecution reached intolerable levels, the Noble Prophet sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam gave permission to his followers to migrate to





When her family came to know about the couple’s planned destination, they intercepted the camel and told Abu Salamah





By this time, the Noble Prophet, sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam, had given permission to his Companions



Umm Salamah


One day, a kind-hearted and influential man from the clan of Banu Mugheerah saw her pathetic condition and was moved by her agony. He called out the people of his tribe and said: “This woman is our own flesh and blood, how long will we keep her away from her husband and child? By Allaah! Our tribe is very brave and honorable; we can’t tolerate persecution of innocent people.”
Hearing this, her tribesmen gave permission to Umm Salamah they




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Umm Salmah



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Her widowhood and marriage to the Prophet 

In the third year of Hijrah (Migration of the Prophet
from Makkah to Madeenah), Abu Salamah
fought in the Battle of Uhud. In that historic and crucial battle, his arm was wounded by a poisoned arrow shot by the enemy. He
later recovered after treatment, but could survive only for a few months. His wound relapsed and ultimately he
died.




Umm Salamah
was immensely grief-stricken at the demise of her loving husband. When the Prophet, sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam, heard about this, he sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam went to offer condolences to her
and asked her to have patience and bear the calamity with fortitude.
According to one narration, when the Prophet sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam paid a condolence visit to Umm Salamah
after the death of her husband, he sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam asked her to pray Allaah to grant Abu Salamah the lofty rank of the righteous and grant her a better husband than him.
At this, Umm Salamah
wondered who could be a better husband for her than Abu Salamah
. Seeing the forlorn state of Umm Salamah
after she was widowed, Abu Bakr
sent her a proposal for marriage, which Umm Salamah
declined.
The Prophet, sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam, was greatly impressed with the courage, which Umm Salamah
displayed in facing the misfortunes and adversities of life. He sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam was also highly moved for her tragic situation and sent the proposal for marriage to her through 'Umar Ibn Al-Khattaab
. Umm Salamah
consented, and in Shawwal, the 4th year of Hijrah, her marriage to the Noble Prophet, sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam, took place.


According to one narration, when the Prophet sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam paid a condolence visit to Umm Salamah

At this, Umm Salamah





The Prophet, sallalaahu alayhi wa sallam, was greatly impressed with the courage, which Umm Salamah



A Historical example of her wisdom
In the 6th Hijrah year, the Prophet
accompanied by his 1,400 companions
decided to perform 'Umrah (minor Pilgrimage). When Quraysh learned about this, they decided to stop the Muslims from performing the pilgrimage; but when the Muslims decided to fight them they feared and signed a treaty with the Muslims, which consisted of several terms and conditions which appeared to be unfair for the Muslims as it prevented them from performing 'Umrah that year.


The Prophet
accepted these conditions in adherence to the Divine Command instructing him
to do so. Then the Prophet
ordered the Muslims to slaughter animals in sacrifice (indicating the end of the 'Umrah rites). But the Muslims hesitated in offering the sacrifice, which grieved the Prophet
.
Umm Salamah
who was with the Prophet
on this journey, heard this and suggested to the Prophet
to offer the sacrifice, shave his head and take off the Ihraam. The Prophet
did so acting on her advice. When the companions
saw that the Prophet’s command was irrevocable, they at once sacrificed their animals and shaved their heads.




Umm Salamah





Her character:
Umm Salamah
led a very simple and austere life. She
was a devout worshiper. Every month, she
fasted for three days (other than the fasting of Ramadhaan). Once, she
wore a necklace, which had a little amount of gold in it. The Prophet
did not like her wearing even this little amount of gold. So Umm Salamah
immediately took it out.
Umm Salamah
was very generous. She
implored others also to give away in the cause of Allaah. Whatever she
had, she
would readily give away to a beggar or a needy person.
Once, a few destitute people came to her begging for charity importunately. Umm Salamah
ordered her maid not to send them back empty-handed, and if there was nothing in the houses, she should give them just a few dates.
Umm Salamah
has narrated 378 Hadeeths of the Prophet
. In moral excellence and nobility of conduct, she ranks, among the Prophet’s wives, next only to 'Aa'ishah
. She
was an excellent reciter of the Quran, and her style was much similar to the Prophet’s. She
was endowed with exceptionally beautiful countenance, deep knowledge, intelligence and sound judgment.
Her death:






Umm Salamah




Once, a few destitute people came to her begging for charity importunately. Umm Salamah

Umm Salamah





Her death:
After a life filled with faith and righteous deeds, the Mother of the Believers, Umm Salamah
died in the year 61 A.H., aged 84 and the venerable Companion, Abu Hurayrah
led the people in her funeral prayer, after which she
was buried in Al-Baqee' Cemetery in Madeenah.



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